Thursday, October 14, 2010

Mutual Decision

my KSA!
Hubby and I respect each other so whatever it is that we have to decide, we talk about it, weigh the pros and cons, and decide after wards. Even when I was still in the Philippines, he would ask me before deciding on stuff. Unless it is a gift that he want to give me, he won't ask lol. Now that we're together, it's always us that decides not just him or me.  I feel guilty sometimes because  I always say NOn especially if I know that we can live without it.  I always say YES though  for the things that we need.  Overall, I can say that my YES depends on the situation, how about you? Share us your story at..

14 comments:

  1. that's good! Yes depends on the situation. it's not always yes all the time.. =)

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  2. that's good, it's always nice to decide things together =)

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  3. good communication is impt. in a relationship and it's good that you have that. :D thanks for the comment in my blog.

    Yes WIFE
    A Time To Weep and A Time To Laugh

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  4. same here tokaya, my yes depends on the situation. we are both lucky that we don't have pushy and bossy husbands.

    Am I a YES Wife.

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  5. i usually say NO to things we can live without... kurips ako mana sa you heheheh

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  6. so bait nmn ni hubby, this means he respects your opinion, kaya tawag sa atin kumander eh, hehehe

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  7. Wow, so nasa yo pala ang desisyon ha? hehehe! tama naman yon Mommy Rose di ba? pag usapan at pag ilahad ang mga consequences. Pareho tayo, kapag di naman kailangan eh di wag bilhin. ang maganda dun, our hubbies respect our suggestions, kaya nga lalo tayong naiinlove sa kanila, ahahay!

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  8. I like it sis! In that case, wala talagang problema. By the way, Aerican ba ang hubby mo? Ang sarap magmahal nila ano? ako nga binibaby lagi. I am being pampered a lot lol.

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  9. hhaahah...kakatuwa...in short wala kayong problema...ehehehe!

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  10. You have such an ideal husband-wife relationship that making a decision based on your mutual understanding is rather the rule than the exception. Between the two of you, I think you are the level headed one because of your vast experiences in life. You have gone through many hard experiences in life that they have toughened up your character and gave you wisdom far beyond what ordinary mortals have received from God. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.

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  11. Thanks a lot KuyaM! ne thing that I earned from being poor is to hold on to your faith, focus on your goals, and find ways to reach it. Those lessons I learned from having a rough life makes me a better person I guess.

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  12. yes.. i think that is how it should be with a couple..

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